Let’s be honest – the idea of getting three (or four) generations of family into one frame, wearing coordinated outfits, smiling at the same time, while someone’s toddler isn’t mid-tantrum and grandpa isn’t squinting into the sun… it sounds like a lot. Is it worth it for a multi-generational family photo?
Maybe that’s exactly why so many families put it off.
But here’s what I want you to know before you close this tab: a multi-generational session doesn’t have to be perfectly orchestrated to be absolutely beautiful. Some of my most treasured work has come from the most gloriously chaotic family gatherings – and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Extended family sessions have a reputation for being stressful. And sure, there are more moving pieces – more opinions, more personalities, more kids who suddenly need a snack the moment you arrive. But what I’ve found, over and over again, is that the more people there are, the more natural the images get.
More people means more genuine interaction. More laughter. More moments where nobody is thinking about the camera because they’re too busy being a family.
One session that has stayed with me was booked last minute to celebrate a 50th wedding anniversary. The family showed up, outfits thrown together quickly (with a little styling guidance), and just… went with it. What I remember most isn’t the logistics. It’s the girl cousins – ranging from about 5 to 10 years old – who gathered for a photo together and completely forgot I was there. They danced. They switched dresses. They jumped for joy. They didn’t care what they looked like. They just wanted to be together and capture that moment. That’s the image that sticks.


The biggest misconception I run into? Families think a multi-generational session has to be formal and posed. Stiff smiles. Everyone lined up. Hands folded.
That is the opposite of how I work.
Yes, we will absolutely get that classic “everyone smiling at the camera” shot – the one grandma is going to frame and hang in the living room. But we’re also going to move, play, and let the real connections show up. The image of the grandparent holding a grandchild’s hand while they walk. The siblings who can’t stop cracking each other up. The parents watching it all unfold with that look on their face.

The other thing I wish more families would let go of? Worrying about how they look. Wrinkles, weight, “bad sides” – I hear it all. But these sessions are not about physical perfection. They’re about capturing this moment in time, with these specific people, exactly as you are. You never know what tomorrow brings. These photos matter because of the love in them, not because everyone had a flawless skin day.


I’ve done a lot of extended family sessions over the years, and I’ve landed on two things that make the biggest difference. Not “arrive 15 minutes early” (though that doesn’t hurt). These are the things that actually move the needle.
Not as the version of yourself that’s trying to impress everyone else in the frame. Not as the person who’s worried about what I think or whether the cousins are doing it right.
Just you. Lean into your family’s dynamic – the inside jokes, the way your dad always makes everyone groan with the same old story, the way your mom holds your kid like nobody else does. I’m not here to judge any of it. I’m here to capture it.
When families give themselves permission to just be, that’s when the magic shows up in the images.

I said it wasn’t standard advice, but this one is different from “wear navy blue.” What I mean is: work with me before the session. (for more info on the ideal family prep, click here!)
Two things in particular make a real difference:

Here’s something I think about more than most people probably expect: a family photo I took was once used on a funeral program. That moment reminded me – in a very real and grounding way – that these images often become among the few lasting records of a family together at a specific point in time.
A 50th anniversary. A summer when all the cousins were still young enough to dance in the grass together. The year grandma was still healthy enough to make the trip. These aren’t just photo sessions. They’re documents of love.


Multi-generational family photo session take a little more coordination, yes. But they also hold a little more weight. And I don’t take that lightly.
If your family has been talking about doing one of these – for a milestone, a reunion, or just because it’s been too long – let this be the nudge to actually make it happen.
If you’re ready to plan your multi-generational session – whether it’s for a milestone anniversary, a family reunion, or just because everyone is finally in the same place at the same time – I would love to work with you.
I’ll help you with styling coordination, walk you through what to expect, and make sure we capture the must-have moments your family will look back on for decades.
Reach out through my website and let’s start planning. Because your family, exactly as you are right now, is absolutely worth capturing.



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